Comments on: How do you mend a broken heart?

By: Mike

Mike — Thu, 30 Nov 2006 18:24:02 +0000

Hi. I stumbled upon your blog when looking for help in mending a broken heart (my girlfriend of 4 months and I broke up the Sunday before Thanksgiving, her decision as she is not sure she wants a long-term commitment anymore). My grandparents raised my sister and I. We lost my grandfather in 1990 to colon cancer. We lost my grandmother in March 2006 of lung cancer. Like most of the blogs say, only time will help. You never forget them. After a while, you can think of them without feeling the pain of loss. Right now, I can only think of my grandfather this way. I still hurt sometimes when I think of my grandmother, but I do think of them often. Right now, dealing with the break up, still trying to get over my divorce early this year (after 14 yrs), and still feeling the loss of my grandmother, what has helped me is keeping busy with activities, family, and friends. You’ve most likely done the same. One day you wake up, think of them with love and do not feel the great loss. My best wishes for you and your family.

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jozjozjoz.com » Blog Archive » I promise my blog… — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 08:34:51 +0000

[...] As I briefly mentioned not too long ago, I went back to school at the beginning of this year. I was going back and forth about whether or not I wanted to keep it private or to put it out on my blog. Back in November, I had hinted about having some good news to share. Who knew that would be the start of the false rumor that I was pregnant?!?! (Thanks again Nez and Mr Don for setting the record straight.) [...]

By: Joelle

Joelle — Wed, 09 Aug 2006 21:42:42 +0000

I never did get a chance to express my sympathies, though i meant to. I’m so sorry for your loss. I can relate and while no one can ever know what you’re feeling, I’m very, very sorry. *hug*

By: Ginny

Ginny — Tue, 08 Aug 2006 13:26:51 +0000

That is a wonderful picture, he does look very happy. We’re thinking of you.

By: Lauren

Lauren — Mon, 07 Aug 2006 22:54:59 +0000

Hey Joz-

You go through your own stages of grief at your own pace and in your own order. Suzy and I send our love and prayers!

By: Hed

Hed — Mon, 07 Aug 2006 19:33:27 +0000

I just want to give you a big hug. I’m so sorry you are going through this, and it’s a confusing time, to be sure. Just know that there really are a lot of people who care about you, and we are here for you, Joz.

-H

By: Nanette

Nanette — Sun, 06 Aug 2006 20:30:23 +0000

Joz, please know that you’re in my thoughts. I know the numbness of it all and while it never quite goes away, it does sort of spread itself out (if that makes any sense).

By: annie

annie — Sun, 06 Aug 2006 18:04:23 +0000

i’m right there with you. there are days i can’t believe my step-mom is gone. i still think she’s on some trip and i’ll see her soon.

just keep writing.

By: philly Jay

philly Jay — Sun, 06 Aug 2006 00:52:12 +0000

Hope you feel better soon joz.Really do.

By: jayne d'Arcy

jayne d'Arcy — Sat, 05 Aug 2006 10:15:31 +0000

Joz, it’s good to see you back and I love that photo of you and your dad. What you’re still feeling is very normal. It does take time and your emotions will sort themselves out. The important thing is to not close yourself off from your support; friends, family, etc. My dad died nearly 12 years ago; just a few months after I married. He was 54 years old. Dad smoked, drank and basically abused his body and we knew he’d never have a long life. That didn’t make it any easier when he did die, though.

Just take each day as it comes, and when you have those days where all you want to do is cry, take a moment to do so. You will get through this. My prayers are with you.

By: sharky the kid

sharky the kid — Fri, 04 Aug 2006 16:14:51 +0000

Joz what a wonderful photo - now I understand where you get your good looks and beautiful smile : ) Say hello to Yoshi for us!

By: Mickey

Mickey — Fri, 04 Aug 2006 00:51:52 +0000

Joz - your line about being a mess of emotions or completely the opposite - oh, how that hits home. I’m keeping you and your family in my thoughts. And what a great picture of you and your dad.

By: missbrookline

missbrookline — Thu, 03 Aug 2006 17:20:36 +0000

Joz, I still don’t know what to say, I am so sorry for you and your family.
The Moores love you.

By: Keri

Keri — Thu, 03 Aug 2006 16:28:06 +0000

I’m not going to tell you that eventually you will feel better. I have no idea. I have yet to go through the loss of my daddy. Or for that matter, anyone who is truly close to me. All I can say is take care of yourself. Be around the people who love you as much as you can. Gather as much love as possible.

The photo is beautiful. His love for you is apparant in his face. Take care, dear.

By: shelley

shelley — Thu, 03 Aug 2006 15:06:48 +0000

Bless your heart. I know it’s hard, and time really does help. But, you will always miss your Dad, and that’s OK.

Your picture is a wonderful tribute; keep it close to you.

Take care of yourself.

By: stkyrice

stkyrice — Thu, 03 Aug 2006 06:20:39 +0000

Speaking from my own experience, unfortunately, time is the only way to let your heart heal. I wish I could say that you can just prepare your mind and heart for how you’ll deal with your emotions, but honestly, you can only deal with them as they come. Just remember that you always have your friends, your family and Yoshi who are always there for you no matter what–and that you’re going to be fine, even when you’re sitting there crying your heart out, or getting angry for no particular reason, or even when you’re smiling and remembering all the good times you had with your Dad.

We all love you, Joz.

By: Superha

Superha — Thu, 03 Aug 2006 05:30:03 +0000

If you ever need anything, Joz. I’m just a call away. Remember, we’re family and you’ll always have us. Please give our best to your Mom and Jeff. I’m glad you’re writing again. I’m sure all your readers missed you.