In loving memory of my father, Yensan Wang

Dad & Joz
Yensan Wang
王燕山
April 2, 1945 - July 2, 2006

The above photo was taken on April 2, 2006, on my Dad’s 61st birthday.

105 Responses to “In loving memory of my father, Yensan Wang”


  1. 1 Hed

    Oh Joz! I’m so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

    -H

  2. 2 Lisa

    Oh, sweetheart, my heart goes out to you and your family. *hug*

  3. 3 Lisa

    I’m so sorry, Joz. :(

  4. 4 cybele

    I’m so sorry to hear about your father’s passing. You have my deepest sympathies and my heart goes out to you and your family right now.

  5. 5 meeta

    I am so sorry Joz. My heart goes out to you and your family. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. ((((((Joz)))))))
    I’m so sorry for your loss sweetheart.

  6. 6 Solonor

    Major league hugs, joz. :(

  7. 7 Dave & Mary

    We’re so sad to hear about your father. Mary especially knows what you’re going through, and we’re both thinking of you and your family.

  8. 8 jennifer

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

  9. 9 don

    There is nothing I can say to lessen this burden, but know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  10. 10 stkyrice

    Joz,

    Howard and I send both you and Yoshi and your family all of our love and condolences. Call us any time you need to.

    Love,
    Efren

  11. 11 Tully

    I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family in this difficult time.

    Tully

  12. 12 nez

    Aw, Joz. I am so sorry.

  13. 13 Sylvie

    ((( Joz ))) please know that you and your family are in my prayers.
    hugs from Montreal

  14. 14 jayne d'Arcy

    I am so sorry, Joz. My prayers are with you and your family.

  15. 15 Annika

    I am so sorry, Joz. I will keep you in my thoughts, as you have been all week.

  16. 16 Julie Leung

    So sorry. Hugs, prayers and sympathy to you and your family.

  17. 17 Krush

    Joz,

    I am so sorry to hear about your father. Lots of hugs and prayers for you and your family.

  18. 18 penguintarts

    :( I am SO very sorry for your loss. Love you! If I can help in anyway let me know. Many prayers for you and your family.

  19. 19 lyn

    ***hugs***

  20. 20 Keri

    Oh Joz. :( My deepest sympathy. I am so very sorry.

  21. 21 KathyHowe

    OMG honey…I am so sorry!

  22. 22 shelley

    My deepest sympathy.

    Your post is a lovely tribute.

  23. 23 Michael Doss

    I’m so sorry for your loss. We’re thinking of you here. Let me know if you need anything.

  24. 24 daniel

    Joz… Wow. I am sooo sorry! Remember I am just ‘down the road’ if you need anything.

  25. 25 Carly

    Hey Joz.. even thought I dont know you I offer my sincere condolences and as in the jewish faith when someone passes we wish the family a long life so I wish that for you and your family.

  26. 26 MamaBear

    Joz, remember the good times, don’t fret over the bad ones and make new great ones in his honour.

    MamaBear

  27. 27 Deltus

    My deepest condolences to you and yours, Jozy. I have no conception of what you’re going through, but I remain available to talk if ever/whenever you want.

    Godspeed on your journey, Yensan. You will be dearly missed.

  28. 28 ken

    So sorry for your loss. May God be with you in your time of need.

  29. 29 philly Jay

    Very very sorry for your loss joz.

  30. 30 Ruth666

    So sorry to learn this, Joz.

    Deepest sympathy to you and your family.

  31. 31 Kirsi

    I’m so sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family.

  32. 32 Nanette

    My sincere sympathy to you and yours. I’m deeply saddened to hear of your loss.

  33. 33 blonddude

    Joz,

    Martin’s and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Let us know if you need anything at all-food, cleaning or a long walk.

    Take good care.

    Love,

    David

  34. 34 Steph

    I’ve been kind of afraid to check in, for fear of seeing something like this. Wow, what can I say other than I’m so sorry for you and your family’s loss. It happened so quickly; you must still be in a daze. Your father was loved and will be missed–I guess that’s all anyone can hope for in this life.

  35. 35 Betty

    I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family.

  36. 36 JM

    Joz, the blogosphere loves you.

  37. 37 Apollo Lee

    Please accept my deepest and most sincere condolences on your loss.

  38. 38 Kara

    Joz,

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my father in March very suddenly; I know how overwhelming this all is. Just know that many people’s thoughts, love, and prayers are with you and your family.

    Hugs

  39. 39 fashmagslag

    I’m sorry to hear this, and for you and your family. He looks happy in the photo- I hope that is what you remember. Hugs

  40. 40 becky

    joz, i am so sorry to hear that your father passed. my deepest condolences to you and your family.

  41. 41 ChaoticMelancholy

    My grandmother had a heart attack, and I sat with her non stop for eight days. I rarely left her side until she passed.

    The great honor I have, and the very special priviledge, is the memories I have while there with her. Most of the time she wasn’t conscious, and I just prayed and read to her. I watched this beloved woman just slip away, and I was powerless. But, I knew that she was grateful, she told me once while she was lucid, and once in a dream while she was asleep.

    It was so hard to have to watch my mother deal with the loss of her mother, and support her, while mourning the loss of my grandmother too.

    It was an honor to be there during those last days, and a priviledge to watch another pass from one life to another. It’s most likely second to birth. In my opinion, it’s first.

    I hated losing her, and I mourn and miss her still. I always will. I am so happy though that she was finally at peace. She was so beautiful and peaceful looking once she left her body.

    Though the pain is difficult and almost unbearable at the moment, you will treasure every moment you had with your father. Those are the most special memories that you will have to yourself. No one can tell you how they were, you know in your heart. And your father knows exactly what your heart mourns for him, and he loves you, and is most grateful that you made his last days full of love and family.

    God Bless you, and may you find peace in knowing that you were a blessing to your father when he needed you the most.

    Peace and Love,
    ChaoticMelancholy

  42. 42 ericalynn

    my sweet lion, I’m so so so so sorry.

  43. 43 the slackmistress

    Oh, Joz, I am so sorry. I have no words, because shoudn’t be any. I’m thinking of you today.

    xoxo
    sm

  44. 44 5000!

    Joz, Delmy and I are terribly sorry to hear. My best friend lost his mother exactly the same way, so I understand how difficult and unexpected it can be. If you need anything, please don’t hesitate to ask. I’m sure the same holds true for everybody over at bLA as well. We’re all thinking of you.

  45. 45 Howard

    R.I.P. Joz Daddy

    Know that you live on in the memories of your loved ones and take pride in the fact that you raised one heck of a loving daughter.

    *sending warm hugs to Joz*

    Howard

  46. 46 Genevieve

    I’m so sorry. I feel like those words are inadequate, but it’s the best I can do. I hope you and your family are going to be alright.

  47. 47 George

    I’m glad you loved him and I’m glad he loved you. What can change that now?

  48. 48 Busy Mom

    Joz, I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  49. 49 muckdog

    Joz, so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, and friends.

  50. 50 Deva

    Joz,

    I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.

  51. 51 -d

    I am very sorry for the loss of your father. No words I could possibly convey here would do justice to your loss… but know that my heart is breaking with you.

    -d

  52. 52 Joe

    So sorry!! I haven’t been here in AGES! Wasn’t expecting this. So very sorry, my thoughts are with you!!!!! Take Care!!!!!

  53. 53 Ginny

    Oh Joz. I am so sorry. Hang in, I’ll be thinking/praying for you and your family.

  54. 54 Kelli

    Aww sweetie, I’m so sorry to hear about this.
    My thoughts and prayers are with you always.

    Sending NY love your way,

    Kelli

  55. 55 nettie

    I just found your site by accident the other day - while looking for “date-a-dr” cause I have no health ins. your post from may 5 2004 came up - and I started reading your blog. I don’t know you at all but I sympathize with the passing of your father. Sending lots of kind thoughts to help you through this time
    from NYC…… nettie!!!

  56. 56 Michael

    :( Oh Joz … I’m so sorry. :( I’ve been without an internet connection for the past few days. /bigHug and /kiss. If there’s anything I can do, please let me know.

  57. 57 shelli

    my virtual card for you, I read it (made it) on the internet so it must be good true. Much love.

  58. 58 zee

    Oh Joz… I’m so, so sorry.

    God bless you, and provide you with the strength needed during times like these. I’m thinking of you, and sending healing energy your way.

    Love, Z

  59. 59 shannon

    I lost my grandmother in a similar fashion and I understand your pain. Cherish the memories you have and know that he will be watching and guiding you along your travels. My thoughts are with you.

  60. 60 Hilary

    Oh Joz. I am so sorry. Thinking of you…

  61. 61 Mike

    I do not even know you, yet I sit here my eyes filled with tears. I have a good idea how you feel, I lost my dad at 12. As I read thru your blog about your father, I find myself wiping away tears that do not seem to want to stop. I have been praying for your family and a lot for your father and now my heart is breaking at the loss you and your family is dealing with now. Your father and your family are in my prayers.

    Mike

  62. 62 H.R.M. Queen of the Universe

    My deepest condolences to you and your family in your time of loss. Remember the good times with him.

  63. 63 Suzanne

    I’m sorry for your loss. :(

  64. 64 Carly

    So sorry, Joz. I wish I knew something to say to make it all better. Hang in there.

  65. 65 Juanita

    I’m sorry I’m late, and so very sorry for your loss.

  66. 66 keith721

    Joz, please accept my heartfelt condolences. I am still keeping you and your entire family in my thoughts and prayers.

  67. 67 Maria-Cristina

    So so sorry Joz. Condolences to you and your loved ones.
    -hugs maria cristina

  68. 68 Lorraine

    My deepest sympathy to you and your loved ones, Joz. I know what a difficult time this is for all of you.

  69. 69 buzz

    I’m so sorry, Joz.

  70. 70 wendell

    Let me be one of the last (again) to offer my condolences. No, condolence is not a strong enough word (and too funny looking, even when spelled right).
    Always remember the good times and the good things about your dad, and, again, don’t be afraid to let someone else be strong for you. You don’t want to end up like me, blogging about bird poop. (And thanks for the visit and the comment - it showed me you’re holding up well)

    Seriously, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.

  71. 71 RAMMER

    Joz, you have been through so much over the last while. It must be overwhelming. I lost my dad this year too. I wish you and yours all the best. Keep in touch.

  72. 72 mice

    Very sad that you should endure such a thing. Hugs for you and all your family.

  73. 73 Kymberlie R. McGuire

    Joz, I’ve very sorry. Your family is in my thoughts.

  74. 74 Lomo

    Joz, Very sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you and your family are alright.

  75. 75 Brian Humphrey

    Joz:

    I am so very saddened to learn of your Father’s passing. He remains with you however, in more ways than you might imagine. He exists in the sunlit mornings and moon-filled nights. He is in the Autumn leaves that crunch softly beneath your feet, and the winds of Spring that makes the clouds dance against a deep blue sky. He is the magic of laughter, and the embrace of compassion. He is forever the sparkle in your eyes, and his voice albeit softer, is now and forever more easily understood and empowering.

    May God Bless you and your family as he has blessed us all with your Father’s all to brief presence.

    Brian Humphrey
    Firefighter/Specialist
    Public Service Officer
    Los Angeles Fire Department

  76. 76 Flavia

    Sorry for your loss, sending you my best.

  77. 77 Alex

    Joz,
    I am so, so, sorry. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. So trite, but no words, you know.

  78. 78 coffeestoned

    sorry to hear that. live and my god bless him and his soul

  79. 79 Kelleah

    I’m so sorry for your loss, Joz. I only recently discovered your blog about 3 or 4 weeks ago, and although I don’t know you very well (or at all, really), my heart hurts for you and your family. It’s so odd how life can change so quickly in such a short amount of time. You have my most heartfelt condolences. Your father sounded like he was one of kind. Stay strong.

  80. 80 Bud Buckley

    Joz, I’ve been away and missed all this. I’m terribly sorry for your loss and the loss to your family. I’ll check in on you. Don’t feel you have to respond to all 80 comments here. None of us expect that.

  81. 81 Maria

    Joz, I’m so sorry for your loss. I just read your entries now and am so sad for you. I’m glad you are surrounded by family and friends. My prayers go out to your father and your family.

  82. 82 P

    i am so sorry. i only now have read of what you have been through these past few weeks. you and your family are in my thoughts.

  83. 83 Mike

    Joz,
    Ditto what Maria said above… we’ll be thinking about you and your family, and wish you strength in this tough time.

  84. 84 justJENN

    Goodness. I am so very sorry.

  85. 85 Kathryn

    Hi, I don’t know you, but I’ve seen you post on Chef JoAnna and Carly Milne’s blogs. I followed a link here, and read about your father. I’m so sorry for your loss.

  86. 86 Mickey

    Oh Joz, I am SO sorry to read about your dad. My eyes are full of tears, knowing how you feel, as I lost my dad not even two months ago. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time.

    Mick

  87. 87 joe

    my condolences to you and your family. hugs out to your part of the world.

  88. 88 sharky the kid

    Joz

    My heart aches for you, your mom and brother and everyone whos life was touched by your father. I’m so sorry for your loss my friend. If you need anything, we are back in town - give us a call.

  89. 89 Mary

    Dear Joz,

    I am deeply sorrowful for your loss-Sending much Reiki to you and your Family…

    Deep peace of the running wave to you;

    Deep peace of the flowing earth to you;

    Deep peace of the quiet earth to you;

    Deep peace of the shining stars to you;

    Deep peace of the gentle night to you;

    Moon and stars pour their healing light on you;

    Deep Peace to you,

    Deep Peace to you…

    (adapted from - ancient gaelic runes)

  90. 90 Monika

    ((((((((Joz)))))))))) I was out of the country and I’ve just been catching up on my blog-reading… this is the last thing I expected to find. sweetheart, I’m so sorry; I can’t even imagine… I’m thinking about you, and sending lots of love your way.
    M

  91. 91 kurisub

    oh joz I’m sorry to hear this, it reminds me that my current problems are meaningless compared to something like this.

  92. 92 cmhl

    I’m so sorry…

  93. 93 stef

    dear joz, i can’t believe that when i finally found your blog back, i read this news. i am sorry for your and your family’s loss.

  94. 94 amie32

    I came upon your site by accident this evening. I am so sorry for your loss and thank you deeply for sharing this. Life is so precious.

  95. 95 galavantiator

    *blog-hopping* hi, my heartfelt condolences to you and your familia, how true that it’s a sad thing that it happens. be strong.

  96. 96 Camilo

    Please accept my condolences.

  97. 97 jamin

    i am sorry my grampa died and i fill like it is all my falt i am verysorry for you and know what you went through

  98. 98 Jen

    Joz. I’m so sorry to find out that your father passed away. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

    Jen xox

  99. 99 Susan

    Joz, this made me tear up. That picture says it all, of the love between you and your dad. My own dad passed away seven years ago and I miss him every day.

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