I am so sorry Joz. My heart goes out to you and your family. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. ((((((Joz)))))))
I’m so sorry for your loss sweetheart.
Hey Joz.. even thought I dont know you I offer my sincere condolences and as in the jewish faith when someone passes we wish the family a long life so I wish that for you and your family.
My deepest condolences to you and yours, Jozy. I have no conception of what you’re going through, but I remain available to talk if ever/whenever you want.
Godspeed on your journey, Yensan. You will be dearly missed.
I’ve been kind of afraid to check in, for fear of seeing something like this. Wow, what can I say other than I’m so sorry for you and your family’s loss. It happened so quickly; you must still be in a daze. Your father was loved and will be missed–I guess that’s all anyone can hope for in this life.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my father in March very suddenly; I know how overwhelming this all is. Just know that many people’s thoughts, love, and prayers are with you and your family.
My grandmother had a heart attack, and I sat with her non stop for eight days. I rarely left her side until she passed.
The great honor I have, and the very special priviledge, is the memories I have while there with her. Most of the time she wasn’t conscious, and I just prayed and read to her. I watched this beloved woman just slip away, and I was powerless. But, I knew that she was grateful, she told me once while she was lucid, and once in a dream while she was asleep.
It was so hard to have to watch my mother deal with the loss of her mother, and support her, while mourning the loss of my grandmother too.
It was an honor to be there during those last days, and a priviledge to watch another pass from one life to another. It’s most likely second to birth. In my opinion, it’s first.
I hated losing her, and I mourn and miss her still. I always will. I am so happy though that she was finally at peace. She was so beautiful and peaceful looking once she left her body.
Though the pain is difficult and almost unbearable at the moment, you will treasure every moment you had with your father. Those are the most special memories that you will have to yourself. No one can tell you how they were, you know in your heart. And your father knows exactly what your heart mourns for him, and he loves you, and is most grateful that you made his last days full of love and family.
God Bless you, and may you find peace in knowing that you were a blessing to your father when he needed you the most.
Joz, Delmy and I are terribly sorry to hear. My best friend lost his mother exactly the same way, so I understand how difficult and unexpected it can be. If you need anything, please don’t hesitate to ask. I’m sure the same holds true for everybody over at bLA as well. We’re all thinking of you.
I am very sorry for the loss of your father. No words I could possibly convey here would do justice to your loss… but know that my heart is breaking with you.
I just found your site by accident the other day - while looking for “date-a-dr” cause I have no health ins. your post from may 5 2004 came up - and I started reading your blog. I don’t know you at all but I sympathize with the passing of your father. Sending lots of kind thoughts to help you through this time
from NYC…… nettie!!!
Oh Joz … I’m so sorry. I’ve been without an internet connection for the past few days. /bigHug and /kiss. If there’s anything I can do, please let me know.
I lost my grandmother in a similar fashion and I understand your pain. Cherish the memories you have and know that he will be watching and guiding you along your travels. My thoughts are with you.
I do not even know you, yet I sit here my eyes filled with tears. I have a good idea how you feel, I lost my dad at 12. As I read thru your blog about your father, I find myself wiping away tears that do not seem to want to stop. I have been praying for your family and a lot for your father and now my heart is breaking at the loss you and your family is dealing with now. Your father and your family are in my prayers.
Let me be one of the last (again) to offer my condolences. No, condolence is not a strong enough word (and too funny looking, even when spelled right).
Always remember the good times and the good things about your dad, and, again, don’t be afraid to let someone else be strong for you. You don’t want to end up like me, blogging about bird poop. (And thanks for the visit and the comment - it showed me you’re holding up well)
Seriously, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Joz, you have been through so much over the last while. It must be overwhelming. I lost my dad this year too. I wish you and yours all the best. Keep in touch.
I am so very saddened to learn of your Father’s passing. He remains with you however, in more ways than you might imagine. He exists in the sunlit mornings and moon-filled nights. He is in the Autumn leaves that crunch softly beneath your feet, and the winds of Spring that makes the clouds dance against a deep blue sky. He is the magic of laughter, and the embrace of compassion. He is forever the sparkle in your eyes, and his voice albeit softer, is now and forever more easily understood and empowering.
May God Bless you and your family as he has blessed us all with your Father’s all to brief presence.
Brian Humphrey
Firefighter/Specialist
Public Service Officer
Los Angeles Fire Department
I’m so sorry for your loss, Joz. I only recently discovered your blog about 3 or 4 weeks ago, and although I don’t know you very well (or at all, really), my heart hurts for you and your family. It’s so odd how life can change so quickly in such a short amount of time. You have my most heartfelt condolences. Your father sounded like he was one of kind. Stay strong.
Joz, I’ve been away and missed all this. I’m terribly sorry for your loss and the loss to your family. I’ll check in on you. Don’t feel you have to respond to all 80 comments here. None of us expect that.
Joz, I’m so sorry for your loss. I just read your entries now and am so sad for you. I’m glad you are surrounded by family and friends. My prayers go out to your father and your family.
Hi, I don’t know you, but I’ve seen you post on Chef JoAnna and Carly Milne’s blogs. I followed a link here, and read about your father. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Oh Joz, I am SO sorry to read about your dad. My eyes are full of tears, knowing how you feel, as I lost my dad not even two months ago. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time.
My heart aches for you, your mom and brother and everyone whos life was touched by your father. I’m so sorry for your loss my friend. If you need anything, we are back in town - give us a call.
((((((((Joz)))))))))) I was out of the country and I’ve just been catching up on my blog-reading… this is the last thing I expected to find. sweetheart, I’m so sorry; I can’t even imagine… I’m thinking about you, and sending lots of love your way.
M
Joz, this made me tear up. That picture says it all, of the love between you and your dad. My own dad passed away seven years ago and I miss him every day.
Oh Joz! I’m so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
-H
Oh, sweetheart, my heart goes out to you and your family. *hug*
I’m so sorry, Joz.
I’m so sorry to hear about your father’s passing. You have my deepest sympathies and my heart goes out to you and your family right now.
I am so sorry Joz. My heart goes out to you and your family. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. ((((((Joz)))))))
I’m so sorry for your loss sweetheart.
Major league hugs, joz.
We’re so sad to hear about your father. Mary especially knows what you’re going through, and we’re both thinking of you and your family.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
There is nothing I can say to lessen this burden, but know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Joz,
Howard and I send both you and Yoshi and your family all of our love and condolences. Call us any time you need to.
Love,
Efren
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family in this difficult time.
Tully
Aw, Joz. I am so sorry.
((( Joz ))) please know that you and your family are in my prayers.
hugs from Montreal
I am so sorry, Joz. My prayers are with you and your family.
I am so sorry, Joz. I will keep you in my thoughts, as you have been all week.
So sorry. Hugs, prayers and sympathy to you and your family.
Joz,
I am so sorry to hear about your father. Lots of hugs and prayers for you and your family.
***hugs***
Oh Joz.
My deepest sympathy. I am so very sorry.
OMG honey…I am so sorry!
My deepest sympathy.
Your post is a lovely tribute.
I’m so sorry for your loss. We’re thinking of you here. Let me know if you need anything.
Joz… Wow. I am sooo sorry! Remember I am just ‘down the road’ if you need anything.
Hey Joz.. even thought I dont know you I offer my sincere condolences and as in the jewish faith when someone passes we wish the family a long life so I wish that for you and your family.
Joz, remember the good times, don’t fret over the bad ones and make new great ones in his honour.
MamaBear
My deepest condolences to you and yours, Jozy. I have no conception of what you’re going through, but I remain available to talk if ever/whenever you want.
Godspeed on your journey, Yensan. You will be dearly missed.
So sorry for your loss. May God be with you in your time of need.
Very very sorry for your loss joz.
So sorry to learn this, Joz.
Deepest sympathy to you and your family.
I’m so sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family.
My sincere sympathy to you and yours. I’m deeply saddened to hear of your loss.
Joz,
Martin’s and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Let us know if you need anything at all-food, cleaning or a long walk.
Take good care.
Love,
David
I’ve been kind of afraid to check in, for fear of seeing something like this. Wow, what can I say other than I’m so sorry for you and your family’s loss. It happened so quickly; you must still be in a daze. Your father was loved and will be missed–I guess that’s all anyone can hope for in this life.
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Joz, the blogosphere loves you.
Please accept my deepest and most sincere condolences on your loss.
Joz,
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my father in March very suddenly; I know how overwhelming this all is. Just know that many people’s thoughts, love, and prayers are with you and your family.
Hugs
I’m sorry to hear this, and for you and your family. He looks happy in the photo- I hope that is what you remember. Hugs
joz, i am so sorry to hear that your father passed. my deepest condolences to you and your family.
My grandmother had a heart attack, and I sat with her non stop for eight days. I rarely left her side until she passed.
The great honor I have, and the very special priviledge, is the memories I have while there with her. Most of the time she wasn’t conscious, and I just prayed and read to her. I watched this beloved woman just slip away, and I was powerless. But, I knew that she was grateful, she told me once while she was lucid, and once in a dream while she was asleep.
It was so hard to have to watch my mother deal with the loss of her mother, and support her, while mourning the loss of my grandmother too.
It was an honor to be there during those last days, and a priviledge to watch another pass from one life to another. It’s most likely second to birth. In my opinion, it’s first.
I hated losing her, and I mourn and miss her still. I always will. I am so happy though that she was finally at peace. She was so beautiful and peaceful looking once she left her body.
Though the pain is difficult and almost unbearable at the moment, you will treasure every moment you had with your father. Those are the most special memories that you will have to yourself. No one can tell you how they were, you know in your heart. And your father knows exactly what your heart mourns for him, and he loves you, and is most grateful that you made his last days full of love and family.
God Bless you, and may you find peace in knowing that you were a blessing to your father when he needed you the most.
Peace and Love,
ChaoticMelancholy
my sweet lion, I’m so so so so sorry.
Oh, Joz, I am so sorry. I have no words, because shoudn’t be any. I’m thinking of you today.
xoxo
sm
Joz, Delmy and I are terribly sorry to hear. My best friend lost his mother exactly the same way, so I understand how difficult and unexpected it can be. If you need anything, please don’t hesitate to ask. I’m sure the same holds true for everybody over at bLA as well. We’re all thinking of you.
R.I.P. Joz Daddy
Know that you live on in the memories of your loved ones and take pride in the fact that you raised one heck of a loving daughter.
*sending warm hugs to Joz*
Howard
I’m so sorry. I feel like those words are inadequate, but it’s the best I can do. I hope you and your family are going to be alright.
I’m glad you loved him and I’m glad he loved you. What can change that now?
Joz, I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Joz, so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, and friends.
Joz,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.
I am very sorry for the loss of your father. No words I could possibly convey here would do justice to your loss… but know that my heart is breaking with you.
-d
So sorry!! I haven’t been here in AGES! Wasn’t expecting this. So very sorry, my thoughts are with you!!!!! Take Care!!!!!
Oh Joz. I am so sorry. Hang in, I’ll be thinking/praying for you and your family.
Aww sweetie, I’m so sorry to hear about this.
My thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Sending NY love your way,
Kelli
I just found your site by accident the other day - while looking for “date-a-dr” cause I have no health ins. your post from may 5 2004 came up - and I started reading your blog. I don’t know you at all but I sympathize with the passing of your father. Sending lots of kind thoughts to help you through this time
from NYC…… nettie!!!
my virtual card for you, I read it (made it) on the internet so it must be
goodtrue. Much love.Oh Joz… I’m so, so sorry.
God bless you, and provide you with the strength needed during times like these. I’m thinking of you, and sending healing energy your way.
Love, Z
I lost my grandmother in a similar fashion and I understand your pain. Cherish the memories you have and know that he will be watching and guiding you along your travels. My thoughts are with you.
Oh Joz. I am so sorry. Thinking of you…
I do not even know you, yet I sit here my eyes filled with tears. I have a good idea how you feel, I lost my dad at 12. As I read thru your blog about your father, I find myself wiping away tears that do not seem to want to stop. I have been praying for your family and a lot for your father and now my heart is breaking at the loss you and your family is dealing with now. Your father and your family are in my prayers.
Mike
My deepest condolences to you and your family in your time of loss. Remember the good times with him.
I’m sorry for your loss.
So sorry, Joz. I wish I knew something to say to make it all better. Hang in there.
I’m sorry I’m late, and so very sorry for your loss.
Joz, please accept my heartfelt condolences. I am still keeping you and your entire family in my thoughts and prayers.
So so sorry Joz. Condolences to you and your loved ones.
-hugs maria cristina
My deepest sympathy to you and your loved ones, Joz. I know what a difficult time this is for all of you.
I’m so sorry, Joz.
Let me be one of the last (again) to offer my condolences. No, condolence is not a strong enough word (and too funny looking, even when spelled right).
Always remember the good times and the good things about your dad, and, again, don’t be afraid to let someone else be strong for you. You don’t want to end up like me, blogging about bird poop. (And thanks for the visit and the comment - it showed me you’re holding up well)
Seriously, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Joz, you have been through so much over the last while. It must be overwhelming. I lost my dad this year too. I wish you and yours all the best. Keep in touch.
Very sad that you should endure such a thing. Hugs for you and all your family.
Joz, I’ve very sorry. Your family is in my thoughts.
Joz, Very sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you and your family are alright.
Joz:
I am so very saddened to learn of your Father’s passing. He remains with you however, in more ways than you might imagine. He exists in the sunlit mornings and moon-filled nights. He is in the Autumn leaves that crunch softly beneath your feet, and the winds of Spring that makes the clouds dance against a deep blue sky. He is the magic of laughter, and the embrace of compassion. He is forever the sparkle in your eyes, and his voice albeit softer, is now and forever more easily understood and empowering.
May God Bless you and your family as he has blessed us all with your Father’s all to brief presence.
Brian Humphrey
Firefighter/Specialist
Public Service Officer
Los Angeles Fire Department
Sorry for your loss, sending you my best.
Joz,
I am so, so, sorry. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. So trite, but no words, you know.
sorry to hear that. live and my god bless him and his soul
I’m so sorry for your loss, Joz. I only recently discovered your blog about 3 or 4 weeks ago, and although I don’t know you very well (or at all, really), my heart hurts for you and your family. It’s so odd how life can change so quickly in such a short amount of time. You have my most heartfelt condolences. Your father sounded like he was one of kind. Stay strong.
Joz, I’ve been away and missed all this. I’m terribly sorry for your loss and the loss to your family. I’ll check in on you. Don’t feel you have to respond to all 80 comments here. None of us expect that.
Joz, I’m so sorry for your loss. I just read your entries now and am so sad for you. I’m glad you are surrounded by family and friends. My prayers go out to your father and your family.
i am so sorry. i only now have read of what you have been through these past few weeks. you and your family are in my thoughts.
Joz,
Ditto what Maria said above… we’ll be thinking about you and your family, and wish you strength in this tough time.
Goodness. I am so very sorry.
Hi, I don’t know you, but I’ve seen you post on Chef JoAnna and Carly Milne’s blogs. I followed a link here, and read about your father. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Oh Joz, I am SO sorry to read about your dad. My eyes are full of tears, knowing how you feel, as I lost my dad not even two months ago. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time.
Mick
my condolences to you and your family. hugs out to your part of the world.
Joz
My heart aches for you, your mom and brother and everyone whos life was touched by your father. I’m so sorry for your loss my friend. If you need anything, we are back in town - give us a call.
Dear Joz,
I am deeply sorrowful for your loss-Sending much Reiki to you and your Family…
Deep peace of the running wave to you;
Deep peace of the flowing earth to you;
Deep peace of the quiet earth to you;
Deep peace of the shining stars to you;
Deep peace of the gentle night to you;
Moon and stars pour their healing light on you;
Deep Peace to you,
Deep Peace to you…
(adapted from - ancient gaelic runes)
((((((((Joz)))))))))) I was out of the country and I’ve just been catching up on my blog-reading… this is the last thing I expected to find. sweetheart, I’m so sorry; I can’t even imagine… I’m thinking about you, and sending lots of love your way.
M
oh joz I’m sorry to hear this, it reminds me that my current problems are meaningless compared to something like this.
I’m so sorry…
dear joz, i can’t believe that when i finally found your blog back, i read this news. i am sorry for your and your family’s loss.
I came upon your site by accident this evening. I am so sorry for your loss and thank you deeply for sharing this. Life is so precious.
*blog-hopping* hi, my heartfelt condolences to you and your familia, how true that it’s a sad thing that it happens. be strong.
Please accept my condolences.
i am sorry my grampa died and i fill like it is all my falt i am verysorry for you and know what you went through
Joz. I’m so sorry to find out that your father passed away. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Jen xox
Joz, this made me tear up. That picture says it all, of the love between you and your dad. My own dad passed away seven years ago and I miss him every day.